In memory - in thought

Rituals such as visits to the cemetery can help people cope with their grief. Here, the bereaved find a safe place to say goodbye and remember the deceased: on occasions such as the anniversary of the birth or death, they decorate the graves of their loved ones with grave decorations - in Offenbach, Kickers scarves or flags are also used for this purpose -, they set up grave lights or light candles. The handling of flowers and plants on the grave can also help to process the grief: The "green cultural space cemetery" also allows for moments of well-being and relaxation. The tranquillity and closeness to nature allow us to draw hope and find new courage. All feelings are allowed - if we allow ourselves to have them.

Some people like to visit places that meant a lot to the deceased. They listen to their partner's favorite music, give their parents a bouquet of flowers they have picked themselves, put their grandfather's walking stick in their children's room. Others visit contact points for coping with grief and commemorate in the form of conversations. Still others withdraw quietly into themselves, create a memorial wall in their home, write a farewell letter. The expression and duration of grief are as individual as each person - there is no right or wrong.

A look at other religions can offer comfort: In Buddhism, death is a transition to a new state. It is part of life and is therefore not ignored. The bereaved remember beautiful experiences with the deceased or their good deeds and share them with other mourners. Thus, in addition to love, gratitude and even joy find their place in remembrance - in thoughts.